Blog-Versary Author Post: Writing Romance, Eliot Grayson
People have a lot of ideas about authors, romance authors in particular — something I knew in the abstract before I started publishing romances, but didn’t really get. For example: We spend a lot of time wandering around bumping into things while we’re plotting out books (true), our real lives of excitement and glamour fuel our writing (I wish), caffeine fuels our writing (very true), we participate in a variety of kinky sex acts and call it “research” (these speculators are best edged away from slowly — and also, unfortunately not), and we all have nine cats (only two, so there!).
One thing that comes up more often than I’d expected is the idea that writers are keen observers of human nature. “I’ll have to watch myself around you, or I’ll end up in a book!” is a cocktail-party standard guaranteed to make any author give a pained smile and dive to the bottom of a bottle of Scotch. (The Scotch-drinking stereotype: in large part, true.)
I do borrow little traits and tics from my friends and neighbors, although nothing they’d recognize. (I don’t want to end up the subject of a cozy mystery in which an author is murdered for exposing the adultery of the local vicar.) But I’ve noticed that if anything, it’s the other way around: I didn’t start writing because I had some deeper-than-average understanding of people; I started to understand people a little bit more once I began to write them.
Like a lot of authors, I spend more time with imaginary people than with real ones. Authors are often an introverted bunch. Writing takes a lot of alone time, and it’s boring to watch. It’s not the sort of hobby that invites participation. I’m often baffled by the motivations of the people around me — that is, when I’m around them in the first place. Thank goodness for my husband; he can always tell when the vicar is committing adultery, and he’s generally right. (He’d be a terror at a country-house weekend. If I ever did write that sort of mystery novel and base it on people I know, he’d be the guy with the pipe lecturing everyone in the library during the Big Reveal.)
Earlier this year I released two M/M romances set in an alt-universe Regency England. (I’m offering the first of these, The Replacement Husband, as a giveaway for one of this site’s lovely readers.) The villain of the first book is, to put it bluntly, a total ass. He’s selfish, thoughtless, doesn’t take no for an answer, takes advantage of a lovely young man who trusts him, and then turns around and takes advantage of someone else. I’m trying to be a little vague so as not to spoil the story for anyone who picks it up, but you get the picture: he’s the sort of character readers love to hate.
In book two of the series, The Reluctant Husband, Tom-the-villain becomes Tom-the-hero. One small fact about him that’s revealed in the first couple of chapters totally turns his characterization in the previous book on its head. That’s developed throughout the course of the story, and his motivations become clearer and, I hope, more sympathetic as it goes along; but basically, there’s one secret thing about Tom that no one else knows, and that casts him in a whole new light.
A couple of readers who liked The Reluctant Husband were shocked by the revelation and also, a little to my shame, very complimentary about the whole thing. They seemed to think I had some grand plan. They thought I had a plan at all.
Not so. I wrote the first book intending Tom to be the villain, and that was that. To be perfectly honest, while he wasn’t a cardboard cutout twirling his mustache, he didn’t have a ton of dimension, either.
A few weeks later I had a stunning revelation in the shower (the stereotype that writers think of things for their books in all kinds of odd places and end up jotting ideas on napkins with eyeliner pencils: true). Tom had a secret! It had been secret from the other characters in the first book — but it was also a secret from me. I wrote Tom. I invented him. And yet I had no idea what he was really like.
I started book two the next day, and it all flowed from that one little bit of information, that new understanding of someone I thought I’d already dug to the bottom of. Revelations like that happen all the time, sometimes when I’m trying to figure out where the plot is going (I’m not an outliner, can you tell?), and sometimes just out of the blue. Sometimes I do have a plan, and the new information just upends it completely.
If I really were a discerning armchair psychologist, this probably wouldn’t happen. As it is, part of the fun of creating characters — and part of the reason why those characters turn out to be fairly interesting, at least some of the time, I hope — is that I have no clue why they’re doing what they do half the time. I find out as the book goes on, and sometimes after. I may be the last to know.
It’s given me a whole new perspective on the real people I know. At any moment I could learn something small, fascinating, and completely essential that would change everything I think about them. Before I started writing, I thought my opinions of people were relatively resistant to change, at least within reasonable parameters. Now I have to wonder. What are they hiding?
If I ever figure it out, maybe I’ll write that mystery novel.
As a last note, the one group of people with a literary bent who get more flak than romance authors is, you guessed it, romance readers. It’s obnoxious to be always defending — or declining to bother to defend — one’s preferred entertainment/hobby/profession, and we shouldn’t have to. But if there’s one group of people you, as readers, can count on to respect and value you, it’s romance authors! So thank you for reading, congratulations to Kazza and Cindi for seven great years, and here’s to many more years of good books and glowing (please?) reviews!
**GIVEAWAY**
To celebrate our 7th blog anniversary, Eliot Grayson is giving away an e-book of The Replacement Husband. Leave a comment before Midnight (US EST) October 31st for a chance to win. The winner will be contacted within 24 hours of the draw and will need to contact us within 48 hours or we will redraw. Thank you for popping by and good luck!
***
And just in time for some Christmas reading, Eliot Grayson has a festive season new book~
Yuletide Treasure
There’s not enough Yuletide spirit in the world to fix this holiday disaster…
Eben Sypeman’s world is falling apart. It’s two days before Yule and his business partner is dead, leaving behind empty accounts and looming bankruptcy. And if that isn’t bad enough, his patron goddess is irritated with him. It seems she’s tired of his tendency to mince words and avoid conflict. She’s insisting—quite forcefully—that he start being totally honest with everyone, including himself. Divinely enforced honesty couldn’t have come at a less opportune time, especially when his clerk’s tall, dark and distractingly handsome son enters the picture.
The last thing on Tim Pratchett’s mind is romance. All the former soldier wants is to fill in for his sick father at work and recover from his war wounds in peace. But there’s something about the grumpy Eben that confounds and entices him in equal measure. Their timing couldn’t be worse. They’re complete opposites. And yet…none of that matters when he’s with Eben.
But if Eben and Tim have any hope of finding their very own happily ever after, they’ll have to survive a dickens of a truth curse and the machinations of a trickster goddess—all while searching for enough yuletide treasure to save them all.
A joyous, relaxing Yule indeed. Bah, humbug.
This is an M/M romance with explicit scenes, a voyeuristic pagan goddess, and an odious nephew. Despite any other possible similarities to A Christmas Carol, there are neither ghosts nor geese, but readers can expect a happy ending and at least one use of the word “dickens.”
Pre-order/Purchase link for YuleTide Treasure
Author Bio:
Eliot Grayson is an editor by day and a romance writer by night, at least on a good day, and more of a procrastinator by day and despairing eater of chocolate by night when inspiration doesn’t flow and the day-job clients aren’t cooperating. Go ahead and guess which of these is more common.
A steady childhood diet of pulp science fiction, classic tales of adventure, and romance novels surreptitiously borrowed from Eliot’s grandmother eventually led to writing; Eliot picked up an M/M romance a few years ago and has been enjoying the genre as a reader and an author ever since.
Contact Eliot Grayson:
You’re a new writer to me and I’m hooked already!! I’m not an outliner either. I’m constantly having to dig my way out of holes I’ve fallen into! But I find it more fun that way.
Thanks, Barbara! I’ve read and enjoyed your books, and it’s such a pleasure to meet you. I agree that half the fun of writing is trying to roll with the punches you’ve thrown at your own face along the way!
I remember years ago (can’t remember how long) reading a post by an author I had just discovered. They were beginning and small-time, but since then they’ve become a USA Today and NY Times best selling author. At the time of the post they were lamenting just having come back from a writer’s conference and constantly being told by fellow authors that they were “just a romance writer,” the disdain of people who should be pulling them up doing the opposite. I guess they’ve nothing to prove now but I still remember their post to this day. I still read them and no matter what genre they chose to write in they would simply be a good writer. I’m glad they chose romance.
I love this post, not because I’m an author but because it’s honest and open and interesting. I can relate to observing people, it’s what I’ve done for a long time in my career. I feel it makes me a character obsessive. Good characters feel like so much more to me. I also now have a soft spot for your husband’s keen observational skills.
I won’t stand for anyone being uppity about romance readers or writers. I love it. I’m proud of being a romance reader. I won’t and don’t tolerate literary snobbery. There are many wonderful, entertaining, brilliant, educational, helpful romance novels to read. If the world were more into love and romance it would be a happier place.
Thank you for sharing our 7th blog anniversary with us, Eliot. Here’s to many more years of you writing and of our blog reviewing.
Cheers!
Thank you for having me! And my husband is a menace. 🙂
When I got my degree in English lit, it was a constant struggle to try to get through my classes with good grades while also trying to discuss/promote books that people actually enjoy, as opposed to “good” books, which are somehow considered two totally separate categories in academia? And if a “good” book happens to also be enjoyable (e.g. Pride and Prejudice), we were expected to analyze it in such a way as to suck all the joy out of it. No shrift whatsoever was given to the idea that books have value based on the pleasure they give. I’m so glad to be writing my own books now and spending my chatting-about-books time with people who enjoy it!
Such a pleasure to take part in this!
I love this post and the books look fantastic. I’m a huge romance reader. I’m also huge horror reader. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve gotten that ‘look’ or comment aimed at me by people who don’t take romance seriously, yet I mention reading horror and their attitude changes. Like Kazza, I don’t like literary snobbery, and that’s exactly what it is. I want just want to read entertaining books. A majority of those are in the romance genre written by damn good writers.
Thank you for helping us celebrate our 7th anniversary!
Thanks for having me! It is snobbery, agreed. All genre fiction gets a little stigma, but romance gets it the worst by far. So glad to find kindred spirits out here!
As a wannabe writer dabbling in stories for myself, I’m not sure if I want anyone else to see them, I think maybe we all have our own method but if the characters lead you along, maybe that’s their most authentic story?
An enjoyable and informative post. Thank you
I think you’re probably right, and that allowing instinct to guide me gets me to the best version possible of my books — not that this makes them the best books out there, of course, but the best that “that” particular book, written by me, could be. I won’t offer you any advice as you pursue your own writing, precisely, but I will say this: it took me a long time to get over my “I’m not sure I want anyone else to see this” fear, and I wish I’d done it sooner. That’s just me, of course. 🙂 I wish you the best as you pursue your own methods, characters, and stories!
I can relate to this post on so many levels. First, as a romance author who has caught a lot of flack for my genre of choice to write in. I’m proud to write stories with characters who fall in love. I’m proud of showing what they go through to get their HEA. But there are a lot of people out there who feel that romance isn’t a serious genre, that it’s not real writing. I’ve learned to ignore those and write what’s in my heart, not what a select few expect me to write. Second, I’ve written three characters who were originally written to be bad guys, one of which will be made good this time next year in the finale of one of my series. With each introduction, the characters were expected to cause problems, be the villain of sorts, with no intention of ever making them good. Well, that changed because characters DO have a way of telling you, “Nope. I’m just misunderstood. Here’s how my story is to play out…” When they start talking to you, you have to listen. That may sound crazy to some, but the characters DO talk to us in our heads. I have one in particular (an annoying elf) who needs to stand down, but that’s another story. 🙂 🙂 🙂
As writers, I believe we’re always learning as we go, regardless of how many stories we write. As a reader, one of my favorite things is watching a character who I believe is beyond redemption be made good later.
Great post. The books look really good.
I’d really like a little more info about the elf… 🙂
Agreed 100% that romance gets a bad rap. Sometimes I put on my snooty hat and explain to naysayers that evolutionary biology dictates romance novels must be the most important genre of literature . . . but that’s just after I’m already drunk from dealing with the other jerks, lol.
I’d really enjoy checking out your redeemed-villain books (I love that trope, as you can probably tell!). What name do you publish under, if you don’t mind, so that I can look up your books?
I found your author post now, so never mind on the extra info! 🙂
I’ll read any old book, fantasy, romance, spy, memoirs. I don’t mind which, so long as it holds my attention. Your books sound like they have supernatural elements combined with romance and I’m keen.
Why people malign one genre over another is a mystery, they’re all books and readers should love books or the idea of more books for more people. Reading is supposed to be fun, even if it is Tolstoy. 🙂
I think this may mark the first and only time the words “Tolstoy” and “fun” have appeared in the same sentence. This is an historic moment!! 🙂 I’m teasing, and I totally agree with you. Some reading is more enlightening than fun, but it ought to have some intrinsic value to the specific reader above and beyond someone else’s judgment of what’s “literary.”
These three books do indeed have supernatural elements, and I have one other novella that’s just historical, with no supernatural aspect. I’m also working on an urban fantasy and a sci-fi (both romances, too). I’m with you. Any genre can be great!
The series of Goddess books and the Dickens reexploration sounds intriguing. I watch and read the Dickens out of A Christmas Carol remakes and rewrites. Pardon the pun.
I couldn’t resist using the same pun once or twice while writing this book and its cover copy as well. 🙂
Love this post. I read everything – romance, erotica, horror, mysteries. I’ve even been known to read a little sci-fi on occasion. I don’t understand people judging others for what they read or write.
Thanks! I don’t get it either. It’s very pleasant to be around other open-minded readers, one reason why it was so much fun to drop in here and post.